If you’ve ever had that silky, nutty dressing drizzled over a simple Japanese restaurant salad, you already know why goma dressing is so popular. It’s creamy (thanks to mayo), bright and tangy (from rice vinegar), and deeply aromatic (from toasted sesame seeds + sesame oil)—the kind of sauce that makes plain lettuce taste exciting.
Below is a full, step-by-step article (with ingredients, tips, and variations) inspired primarily by Delightful Plate’s method and supported by common Japanese sesame dressing formulas from other recipe sources.
Ingredients (Makes about 3 servings)
Core ingredients (Delightful Plate–style):
- 2 tbsp toasted sesame seeds
- 1/4 cup mayonnaise (Western mayo works great; Japanese mayo also works)
- 1–2 tsp rice vinegar (start with 1 tsp, then adjust)
- 2 tsp soy sauce
- 1 tsp honey
- 2 tsp toasted sesame oil
Optional (nice-to-have) add-ins:
- 1 tsp sugar for a slightly sweeter, classic “goma dressing” profile
- 1/2 tsp mirin for gentle sweetness and depth
- A splash of water (1/2–1 tsp) to thin the texture if needed
Equipment
- Small skillet (if you’re toasting seeds)
- Mortar & pestle (or a small grinder)
- Mixing bowl + whisk/spoon
- Jar for storage
Step-by-step Instructions
Step 1) Toast the sesame seeds (if not already toasted)
If your sesame seeds are raw, toast them in a dry skillet over medium heat for a few minutes, shaking/stirring often, until they smell fragrant and turn lightly golden. Don’t walk away—sesame can burn fast.
Tip: The aroma is your best cue. Once it smells nutty and “warm,” pull them off the heat.
Step 2) Crush/grind the sesame seeds
Use a mortar and pestle to crush the seeds until they look partially ground—some pieces fine, some still intact. That mix gives the dressing both flavor and texture.
Step 3) Mix the creamy base
In a bowl, add:
- Ground sesame seeds
- Mayonnaise
- Rice vinegar
- Soy sauce
- Honey
Stir until smooth and well combined.
Step 4) Finish with sesame oil
Drizzle in the toasted sesame oil and stir again. This is what boosts the signature Japanese sesame aroma.
Step 5) Taste + adjust (this is the secret to “restaurant-style”)
- Want it tangier? Add a few drops more rice vinegar.
- Want it saltier/umami? Add a tiny splash of soy sauce.
- Want it sweeter? Add a touch more honey (or a pinch of sugar).
Step 6) Adjust thickness (optional)
If it’s too thick, add 1/2 to 1 tsp water, stir, and repeat if needed until it pours the way you like.

How to Serve It
This dressing is perfect on a simple salad like lettuce + cucumber + cherry tomatoes, and it’s especially good with boiled eggs for a fuller plate.
Other tasty uses:
- As a dip for crunchy vegetables
- Drizzled over cold noodles or grain bowls
- On slaws (cabbage + carrots) for a Japanese-inspired side
Variations (Quick Ideas)
- More traditional sweet-salty balance: add 1 tsp sugar and/or 1/2 tsp mirin
- Extra sesame intensity: increase sesame seeds slightly or add a spoon of sesame paste/tahini (some recipes use sesame paste for richness)
- Lighter feel: use a bit more vinegar + a teaspoon of water to thin and brighten
Storage
Store in a closed jar in the refrigerator and use within a couple of days for best flavor and freshness.